Anonymous asked: I would like to go out with someone else, but I don't really have the confidence to say anything and I have a slight fear of rejection. The only reason I actually said anything to my ex was that he was one of my best friends.
If he’s one of your best friends, then he should understand and respect your choice making. If you want to go out with someone else, you’ll have to build a friendship with someone else and move on from your ex. Try starting to think of him more as your best friend rather than your ex.
If you like someone else, build a relationship with them. You don’t have to be the one to make the first move, you can start building on a friendship you already have with them
-mitzi xxx
Anonymous asked: A few months ago, but he sometimes has been flirting and acting like we're in a relationship, even though he's had a girlfriend since then. I know I should be angry, but he has this way of getting into my heart and making me smile. I've been feeling low and missing him, and wishing I had done something differently so that he wouldn't have liked someone else in the first place.
don’t blame yourself!!! noo don’t blame yourself! It was his fault for being suck a dick by suggesting that! Have you tried finding someone else? sort of like a rebound?
The only quick and easy way to get over someone is to simply just find a distraction.
-chris x
Anonymous asked: My ex broke my heart - we were in a serious relationship, but then he told me he liked my friend and actually asked me if I would consider a polyamorous relationship. As if I want a time-share boyfriend. I was really angry and upset for ages and I still am, but at the same time I love him. Do you have any advice on getting over it? Xx
wow what a dick.
make yourself realise that he’s not worth it. How long ago did this happen? -chris x
Anonymous asked: Um so I just found out that my younger friend, who's thirteen, has had sex a couple of times and I really don't know what to do.. I mean, i know it's against the law, but should I not interfere? Thanks so much xxx
I personally don’t think you should report it and should just warn them about risks. -mitzi x
Anonymous asked: okay so i'm really close with this guy at the moment but I didn't think of it as anything more than friends and then yesterday at a party he put his arm round me and we slow danced and now I have found out he really likes me and he keeps complimenting me all the time, I can imagine us as a couple but I can't decided whether I like him in that way or not and I don't want to be a bitch and lead him on, I also don't want to ruin our friendship, what should I do?
have time to think. You can’t just automatically know if you like someone or not, It needs time to realise.. Does he know that you know he likes you… if so just talk to him about the party and his thoughts.. if he expresses his feelings just say you need time to think.
relationships do sometimes ruin friendships but i went out with someone a few years back and we broke up and everything was shit.. but afterwards we were the closest friends ever.. but like i said you need to think about it
oh and how long has he liked you for?
-chris x
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Anonymous asked: are you planning to go see 'the beatles: the lost concert' film?
i don’t know about Mitzi but i sure know i’m not.
i can’t stand the beatles which is odd as i love old music from the 80s etc.
-chris x
